The Black Hole, pt 2

Tired of living with a gaping hole in our lives, and our options before us, we have decided to at least start looking into adoption.  There are a ton of obstacles in our way, financing, namely... but I kinda feel like things aren't gonna turn around for us if we're just sitting around waiting for things to change, instead of acting to change them.   We're going to an informational meeting tonight.  Here goes nothing...